When a guy calls you very often, it could mean many different things. It could be that he is bored, finds you interesting, or sees you as a means of escape. So it’s no wonder plenty of women are often confused by these constant callings from men.
So what does it mean when he keeps calling you, and how can you figure out whether his action is friendly or implies something deeper?
Here’s an in-depth look at what it means when he calls you very often.
1. He’s bored
Men have a tendency to fall back on people or things that hold their interest when they get bored. While some men would turn to work, games, or any other activity of interest, others resort to calling you. You’re the flavor of the month, after all.
This way, he’s saved from being bored out of his mind, and he also gets to know stuff about you he wouldn’t have known under normal circumstances; if you’re responsive, that is.
2. He finds you interesting
This can also be found in the behavior of children and pets. Kids, for example, get a new toy and play with it for a whole day or a couple of days because the toy holds their interest. It could probably be because of a feature the last doll house or Lego puzzle didn’t have.
Puppies, in like manner, would gnaw on a new piece of bone for a long time. Aim? So they can crack it.
Men would call a woman they find interesting frequently because they want to find the thing in her that interests them so much.
3. He wants to get down with you
A man would show all the attention in the world to a woman he wants to sleep with. Whether he would maintain the same energy after sleeping with her depends on the man involved.
Studies have shown that a male spider would wrap flies and other stuff in a web as a gift to the female spider it wants to sleep with. physical gifts or time, the goal is to sleep with her—same difference.
So when a guy calls you every day, it could be that he wants to get down with you.
4. You’re his friend
Generally, men feel a sense of duty to their families, countries, jobs, etc. This is almost always extended to the women in their lives. They feel this obligation to care for and protect them.
A man who always calls you might just care for you like he would his sister. You are within his reach and under his coverage.
Being a man’s friend gives him the protector’s seat somehow. In the same vein, a man would go to great lengths to secure the comforts of his friend. He wants to be assured of her well-being, and so frequently calling her to ask where she is, who she’s with, or what she’s doing there would provide him this assurance.
5. He sees you as means of escape
Men in a relationship do this all the time. When they have issues with their partners, with partners breathing down their necks and making their life hard, they will reach out to female friends who are sure to provide them with some sort of succor.
These friends would provide solace and offer advice on fixing the relationship. They’re women, you know. They are sure to know how women work and think and how to placate them.
Going a step further, women might take the side of their male friends even if they might be at fault. Men like their egos pampered.