When a woman is satisfied in bed, you are going to know it. She will, of course, feel a rush and will almost always fall asleep. This is because her body releases a number of hormones that cause her to enter sleep mode. There would be no question. She wouldn’t go into the bathroom to finish off nor ask that you give her more. She will be just that: satisfied. Sounds nice to you? Here are 10 ways to satisfy your woman.
We cannot possibly stress the need for foreplay enough.
Foreplay is akin to giving someone an appetizer. Appetizers are not meant to make you feel full. They are meant to make you want more of the real deal.
If the appetizer feels good, your tummy begins to contract as you enter the cephalic phase of gastric acid secretion. Your salivary glands begin to secrete more saliva, which allows your tastebuds to become more responsive.
In the end, the real food tastes better, and you enjoy every second it stays in your mouth.
If you have got to satisfy your woman, you must realize that her body wants that foreplay to prepare itself for the real deal.
2. Make Sure She is Wet Enough
Usually, most women are going to be wet before the end of the foreplay. But there are ones who may have some problem getting or staying wet.
While some women barely ever get wet, there are some who do get wet but lose this wetness before any action takes place, so it begins to seem like the wetness was of no use in the first place.
Whichever category your woman belongs to, you have to be open to using lube.
There are a few options you can choose from. We talked about some of the best oils to use as lubes in an article we put up a while ago. You can check this here.
3. Make The First Stroke Count
The first stroke has to count. That is it. This means it has to be void of any pain or negativity.
The first stroke during sex is akin to the first sentence of any story. If the first sentence is too long and boring, the reader immediately concludes that the book in question is not going to offer any action. He closes it and goes looking for another.
This is similar to what happens when your first stroke is whack. The woman immediately dismisses it as bad sex and makes a mental note not to fully enjoy it.
4. Stroke Perfectly
When you have gotten the first stroke right, it becomes your responsibility to get the other strokes right, at least for the first few minutes of the sex.
Getting strokes right is a delicate art like writing. I am sorry I am using too many examples in writing. I guess it works best for me because I am a writer myself.
To put out a piece of writing people want to connect to, a piece that people love, the writer has to be aware that he would have to alternate sentence length and tone.
If he uses too long sentences, the work becomes boring. If he uses too short ones, the work becomes like one is rushing. This means the writer has to make a perfect blend of long and short sentences.
Consider your strokes to be sentences. With them, you talk to her vagina. If your strokes are too monotonous, they bore her. Alternate between deep and shallow. Check out this article on how to give rhythm to your strokes for more information about this.
5. Chase Your Own Satisfaction
No, it is not selfish. Wanting to be satisfied, too, does not make you selfish. It, in fact, does more to help you both enjoy the sex.
When you enjoy it, there are more chances that she will.
6. Change Positions
Changing positions is like adding flavor to the sex.
I have seen that partners who use the same positions over and over almost always have problems satisfying each other in bed. This is because the sex soon starts to feel like a book that has been read more than ten times, a movie that has been seen too much.
No matter how you loved the movie at first, you will not love to see it again. However, you may be fine with seeing a remake since a remake promises something new.
If there is no promise that there will be something new, an activity that has not been done before, you may find it very hard to satisfy her.
However, if there is a promise that things will get exciting, then you can count on it that she will be satisfied.
Change positions as often as it is demanded to satisfy your woman. You will know when it is time to. You can count on that, too.
7. Touch Extra Genital Zones
Every one of us who is sexually aroused has a couple of zones or areas on our bodies that can produce some sexual feeling when stimulated.
You should learn some of these zones on your partner’s body and stimulate them when you both are having sex. It is going to give her a very amazing feeling, and if you do it long enough, she is going to be satisfied.
8. Last Longer
At the end of the day, good sex takes some time. Though the amount of time you last in order to have her satisfied differs from woman to woman, you should at least try to last a couple of minutes.
It takes a while for her body to accept the fact that she is having sex and release the chemicals that make one feel satisfied.
9. Take Breaks
Sometimes, you do not have to go straight hours or minutes. You both can take breaks, where you can drink some wine and have a good conversation before starting all over.
10. Do you!
Good sex that leaves her satisfied is often thought to be a lot of work. It is not. Most of the time, you just have to pay attention in order to satisfy your woman in bed.