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Top Smart Ways to Win a Man Over


Are you deeply in love, but your crush doesn’t reciprocate your feelings? Here you will find tips with which you can use to up your game. Falling in love is a wonderful thing, especially when it’s mutual. Making him take notice of you and a positive charisma is probably the first thing to work on to charm him and make him reciprocate what you feel for him. There are certain tricks you can use to win a man over. This article highlights the most important ways to win a man over and make him fall in love with you.

1. Show your presence

When you fall for a guy, it’s your responsibility to help him take notice of you. So show your presence. You can do this relatively quickly through social media activities: Like and comment on his posts or status. It depends on how well you already know each other; you send him short private messages or invite him to dinner, a beer, or a coffee—many men like it when women take the initiative.

“He can see that you are interested in him…”

If both of you have known each other for a long time, think of ways you can get closer to him unobtrusively. If he perceives you as an attractive woman, he’ll fall in love with you quicker than you think.

2. Low-key flirting

This will likely lure him in and probably awaken his hunting instinct. Some men love challenges. If he thinks that you have fallen for him anyway, the tension may be gone immediately. A man in love would like to work hard for a woman he finds gorgeous.

Also, the mixture of closeness and distance has a certain charm in getting to know each other. He gets a chance to miss you if you are not around him all the time. It’s not about playing with him; it’s about genuinely interested in each other.

Most of all, his longing for sex and intimacy with you can develop if you don’t sleep with him at the earliest opportunity, even if you may find it difficult because you feel strongly drawn to him.

You have probably heard this from a friend: “I met this exceptional guy. Everything went really fast and well. I almost fell completely in love. But since we slept together, the crackling between us has gone …

Having sex with him right away can keep your sweetheart from falling in love with you. But it can also weld you together – especially if you have already reached the point of being in love.

It will be best to avoid premature declarations of love. At least if your potential partner doesn’t know exactly where this will lead to the two of you.

3. Show charisma and passion in whatever you do.

You can tell if someone is charismatic by merely looking at them: their shining eyes, a radiant smile, and lively gestures. It is not a problem to listen to them for hours because you’ll never get bored. They talk about their everyday life, and you just hang there listening attentively.

The key to a positive charisma is passion. It can be genuine enthusiasm for your job, your hobby, or volunteer activity. The main thing is that you show that you are there with body and soul.

Men often fall in love with women with charisma. What attracts them is this mix of commitment and emotions. It is also important that you are authentic. Don’t try to be who you’re not. Just be yourself and let your dream partner participate in your world.

4. Feel comfortable in your skin.

That is probably easier said than done. Almost every woman is dissatisfied with something in itself. Breasts too small, stomach too big, buttocks too fat, hair too short? Those who are often in love think of their own deficits. Change your mindset: Instead, focus on the things you like about yourself. Make yourself aware of your strengths.

It all comes down to feeling satisfied with yourself and exuding confidence. That’s what makes you sexy. Men are more likely to fall in love with happy, radiant women with self-confidence—those who believe in themselves.

Act like you are the very best that can happen to him – without being arrogant. Only when you consider yourself a valuable person can he do that and fall in love with you.

A healthy diet, affordable clothing, a beautiful hairstyle, natural-looking make-up, and positive feedback from friends or colleagues will make you strong inside and boost your self-esteem. The main goal is to win him over and not for just one hot night but a long-term partnership.

5. Be independent.

Many men fall in love with women who have both feet on the ground and are not emotionally dependent on them. Don’t put your world at a standstill. Continue to live your life. Keep in touch with your family and friends. You can’t leave your hobbies completely idle either. Your own activities make you a versatile and exciting person.

If you fall in love and give your dream man top priority and no longer lead a life of your own, you will quickly get bored with him. Men like intelligent women and new challenges. This includes that you speak and represent your opinion, especially if he disagrees.

6. Make him comfortable around you.

You don’t necessarily have to share the same views as him. What’s important is that you create an atmosphere where you can both laugh and fool around and talk and discuss important matters seriously.

The nuances are important for falling in love. That’s why you can touch him now and then, go a little deeper in conversations and let him talk about himself. He’s more likely to fall in love with you if he feels safe and secure with you. 

7. Give him honest compliments.

Compliments have a lot of effects than you think (1). Men will surely put a smile on your crush’s face and win him over when you least expected it. They like it when you listen carefully, laugh at their jokes, and take a personal interest in their work and hobbies, which increases the chance that they will fall in love. Praise a behavior or skill you like about him, and he’ll probably grow a few inches with pride.


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By Sara Leandro

Sara Leandro is a certified health coach who helps others feel their best through individualized lifestyle changes that meet their unique needs and health goals. She covers topics ranging from health and productivity to relationships.

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