There is a female coworker you think is sexually attracted to you, but you can’t fully understand what exactly their intentions are, so you would like to know. It’s always a good idea to clear this continuous thought up in your head.
Relationships between coworkers aren’t new, and they definitely aren’t uncommon. One-third of women who live in the US said that they have, at some point or the other, dated a coworker. So, if you think your coworker likes you, you are probably right.
Men and women approach attraction differently. So, if a female coworker likes you, you’ve got to be able to look into her feminine schemes and sniff it out.
Here are ten signs your female coworker is sexually attracted to you and wants to date you.
1. She Antagonizes You
A lot of times, this comes off as really annoying. But if you are patient and sensitive enough to look past the surface, you’ll see that it is only a sign that she likes you.
People antagonize others for many reasons. One such reason is that they want to be noticed.
If a female coworker likes you, she’ll try her best to have you notice her. She’ll poke holes in your presentation; she’ll make it seem like you will have to need her help all the time.
2. She Supports You
Some women don’t antagonize. Instead, they show support. And I mean, a lot of support.
When you begin to find that you can do no wrong in her eyes, when everything you do is met with a lot of support, then you have to know your coworker is sexually attracted to you.
She’s supporting you because she likes you.
3. Other Coworkers Think She Treats You “Too Specially.”
This is going to happen soon after you first notice that she is being too nice and too supportive towards you.
The coworkers will start to sniff something. They’ll ask what’s going on and may even start teasing you both during break hours. This can happen even before you notice her niceness, though.
4. She Stares, A Lot
It is going to be something like the moments captured in movies. You are working at your desk. A slight move of your head and, right there, are eyes staring at you. Your female colleague smiles and then looks away.
If this happens more than once, then it is certain that she has a crush on you. It may just be a crush at this point, but it is going to grow into something more if you let it.
5. She is Happier Around You
And I mean visibly happier. She could have been having the messiest day, then boom, you walk in, and she is all smiles.
This sign shows your female colleague loves your company and craves more of it.
What do you say? Would you give it to her, or would you let it slide?
6. She Asks for Help and Wants to Watch You do It
A female coworker can ask any coworker for help. But when she insists that she has to watch you do it, then something is definitely up, especially if she keeps making remarks about how effective you are as she watches.
It’s all a way of telling you: “Hey, I think you are cool. Can you help me with other stuff completely not part of office work?”
7. She Finds a Way to Maintain Body Contact
No, she isn’t going to be all extra about it. At least not yet. But there is going to be body contact and a lot of it at that.
- She’ll insist on hugs.
- She’ll want to pick a pimple from your face.
- She’ll want to help fasten your necktie properly.
You know, anything to initiate body contact.
This is she telling you that she is comfortable enough with touching you. Meaning she is very sexually attracted to you and wants to date you.
8. She Wants to Hang Out Outside the Work Environment
If a female coworker asks to hang out with you outside the work environment, she is simply saying that she wants to take her flirting and displays to an area that is more comfortable.
She wants to be able to express herself to you, and she wants you to do the same.
9. She Begins ‘Personal’ Conversations
Sure, when your female coworker likes you, she begins personal conversations such as these ones:
- She is going to try to establish a rapport.
- She’ll attempt to start conversations with you. Personal ones.
- She’ll tell you how her day went and how she plans to spend the rest of her week.
- She’ll try to make you ask questions, too, and hint that she is free to hang out.
10. She Seeks your Compliments
A female coworker who wants to date you will seek your compliments. Or validation. It is feminine nature to seek some kind of validation from the masculine.
She is going to ask what you think of her dress. If you think her new shoes look nice.