Ladies, would you like your man to fall in love with you and propose to you? Here are some ways to get that done. He will want to show you how much he loves and appreciates you faster than you think. Here are ten ways you can make that happen.
1. Be natural to him
Don’t try to be what you are not because he will still definitely find out one day. And when he does, forget it. Be as real as you can be to him; let him see you for who you are. Men appreciate the authentic self, not the acting one. Beauty may draw him to you, but when he finds out he has been deceived, the love will eventually fade away quickly. Always be comfortable in your skin.
2. Don’t be desperate
Try not to move faster than him in the relationship; take it slow. It matures with time. Furthermore, if your man thinks you are desperate for the ring, he may not want to propose to you. He may think something is not right. Also, putting your man on edge won’t make him propose to you. Be patient with him. By being patient, you also show your man that you value him and your relationship.
3. Don’t try to change him
You can’t force your man to accept what you want. For example, if he is someone who likes watching football or loves traveling. Try not to change him; if possible, learn to like what he likes, so both of you can be on the same page. A man loves it when his woman shares the same interest as him. (in a positive way).
For example, if your man likes football and he likes joining his friends to watch football matches, it will be best to join him sometimes and show your support for his favorite team.
4. Be appreciative
Men absolutely love this; believe me. Be thankful for whatever he does for you, no matter how big or small—men like it when women are very appreciative. In fact, they will like doing more. Show him how much you appreciate him, and he will do the same. Not only the big things, including the small stuff.
Appreciating your man and recognizing what he does makes him feel good about what he’s doing. Also, it makes him feel better about himself. Every man would want to propose to a woman who shows gratitude.
5. Be loyal to him
Another way to get your man to propose to you is to show him you are devoted even if he is not perfect. You have to be committed to him as well, and don’t let him feel you chose him because of his physical appearance.
For example, don’t love him only because he is tall, has six-packs, or looks handsome. No man wants to feel that you chose to be with him because he satisfies a need of yours.
6. Introduce him to your family
Another essential aspect is introducing him to your family members, including your mom, dad, and siblings. Doing this will make him feel welcome. You should also meet his family and be comfortable with each other’s family.
Introduce him to your family after you guys have understood each other very well and if everything is going smoothly. If his family likes you, they might even pressure him to propose to you and marry you. Sure, you heard that right.
7. Be someone your man can confide in
Make your man feel he can talk to you anytime he wants to talk. In other words, try to be understanding and don’t try to get upset if he says something insensitive. But if he hurts your feelings, don’t be aggressive about it; let him know.
It will be best not to judge him for telling you the truth about something. This makes him build trust and confidence in you and always open up to you.
8. Look good at all times
You need to maintain yourself to keep the attraction last forever, if possible. A man wants his woman to be confident and good-looking. So do not neglect yourself. Always take care of yourself. Pursue your career goals and keep looking for ways to improve and better yourself.
Furthermore, looking good includes everything from good hygiene, dressing, makeup, and how you take care of yourself. Your man will want to propose to you quickly so as not to lose a beautiful woman.
9. Show personal interest in him
Always make an effort to know about his welfare and life in general. Ask him questions about his job, if he is facing any stress, what his plans are for the future, etc. If you don’t ask him these questions, he wouldn’t want to bother you with them. He would want to solve his problems himself.
Showing genuine interest shows you are really interested in him personally. Every man wants to spend the rest of his life with a woman that is interested in him personally. That is precisely the kind of woman a man would likely propose to.
You can demonstrate such personal interest in a variety of ways. They are:
- Consider his viewpoint
- Help him tp progress
- Listen attentively
- Show interest from your heart and
- Give him practical assistance
Sometimes, you do not even have to say or do anything. Your attitude and facial expressions will reveal it. If you truly care about your man, he will, without fail, be able to tell.
10. Let him miss you
Try not to be present 24/7 with him. Taking time apart is healthy for you guys so that both of you can also concentrate on other stuff. This makes both of you miss each other and want to be together again. So it brings balance and respect to the relationship.
Furthermore, another way to make him miss you is to be independent. He is not going to miss you if you are always available to him. Give him some space and create space for yourself too. Also, try not to overdo it. Be very calculative. Trust me; your man will want to propose to you so that you will now be with him 24/7.
To wrap it up
Every one of us wants a long-lasting relationship. If possible, one that leads to successful marriage life. As long as you and your man communicate well, appreciate each other, and grow together, there’s no reason he wouldn’t want to engage you.
Finally, if you’ve tried everything and still he is not showing any sign of proposing, give him hints about moving. You can do this by calmly sharing your thoughts about changing locations to find better work opportunities or you want a change of environment.
Tell him how far you’ve gone with finding a new place, and what you think about this excellent job opportunity you found. The thought of your changing location to another city will incite him to propose.
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