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How to Kiss a Girl You Love

by | Love and Romance

Last updated Jun 9, 2022 | Published on May 24, 2022

There is a kind of kiss you kiss the girl you love and the kind you kiss the girl you like. In this article, we will talk about how to kiss the girl you love.

Giving a girl you love a good kiss is going to make her attraction for you spike. A bad one? Not so much. So when it comes to the woman you love and want to be with, it is important that you step up your kiss game.

Knowing how to talk to kiss a girl you love is a crucial skill for guys to learn because it plays a significant role in relationships. An affectionate kiss can make you connect with your woman emotionally and physically. Here’s how to kiss a woman you love so good she never forgets it:

1. A clean mouth

Kissing a girl you love begins with you making sure your mouth is healthy. Brush. Floss. Or at least gurgle a mouth wash. You want to make sure it smells quite fresh in there. 

2. Create the Mood

Kisses are sensual and so do not just happen. There has to be a mood for the kiss, or it won’t feel so right even if it happens. Make sure you both have established a rapport. Create a sexual tension by flirting with her. You create sexual tension by keeping her positive emotions high. Make her laugh. Make her feel intense attraction for you. Keep this up for a while. 

Does she want the kiss? What do you think? Before you plant your lips on hers, be sure she wants to be kissed. You should be able to spot her willingness in the way she looks at you. In the way, her body moves. 

Related: 10 Signs He Enjoyed The Kiss

3. Lean in

Believe it or not, girls do like to be kissed by guys who love them. A good way to initiate a kiss with a girl you love is to lean in. Lean in slowly. Flirtatiously. 

There’s nothing more awkward than when you kiss your partner, and there’s a little bit of space between you both. You have to come closer and bridge the gap. That is how you kiss a girl you love.

4. The first contact

Before you put your lips on her own, make sure your lips are not rough and cranky. It’s great to wipe your top and bottom lips with your tongue so that there’s some moisture. Now, put your lips on hers tenderly. Be sure she is feeling it too. Don’t be rough when kissing a girl you love. Be tender. Feel it. 

5. Hold her Waist

This is a woman you love, isn’t it? Big chances are, she loves you too. So contact between you both is something that should happen. Hold her waist, pulling her close gently. Pull her into your body so that both your tongues are in contact, and it is as though she is relaxing into you. 

Related: 10 Signs the Kiss Meant Something to Him

6. Be in your Feelings

With a woman you love, kissing isn’t just kissing. A great way to kiss your lover is to make sure you tap into your own feelings. It’s not just happening physically. Your emotions are also very involved in this. Close your eyes if you want. Every contact between skin should be able to trigger an emotion. 

7. Let Her Explore Too

With a woman you love, the kiss should be decent communication. During healthy communication, not only one person speaks. Both speak when the time is set. Let her Explore too. Let her play around with her lips. Let her hold you too. Just let her be herself. 

8. Occasional Eye Contact

When you kiss a girl you love, pull back once in a while to initiate eye contact. The contact can last long, or it can be just short. Whatever works. But, spread your lips in a smile, and then go back to kissing her. 

9. Timing

If the kiss lasts too long, it’s going to get boring. Time the kiss perfectly, and let it escalate into something more if that is in the plan. If the plan isn’t to escalate it, then let it be. 

Remember, she may want to take things slower at first. And you want to reassure her as you kiss her that you really love her. That is another reason not to go too fast and furious with it. Timing is everything. Look for the right balance.

Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash

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By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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