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How to Give Tantric Massage to Your Man

by | Sensual Intimacy

Oct 2, 2022

A tantric massage (lingam massage) comes with a lot of benefits to men. A properly done tantric massage can help a man tap into his sexual energy, hence improving his mood and bringing him to the point of self-awareness, where he becomes confident in his sexuality and masculinity. It can even help him perform better in bed. 

In this article, we will show you how to give a tantric massage to a man.

What You Will Need to Give Your Man Tantric Massage

  • A quiet room 
  • Some scented candles
  • Some music, if you love music 
  • Some oils
  • Your hands

Read: How to Give a Tantric Massage to Your Woman

The Procedure of Giving Him a Tantric Massage

1. Get Him in a Comfortable Position

When you have set the room properly so that it is serene and calming, have your man lie down on a flat surface facing the ceiling. Make sure he is comfortable. Now, have him close his eyes. The music can begin playing at this point. 

2. Begin Messaging

Massage involves rubbing along the skin, deep enough to increase blood flow to the area. So, rub some oil across your man’s body and begin rubbing his chest, spreading your reach to his shoulders and upper arm. 

Along the upper arm, you might want to tighten your grip a bit. 

Repeat these movements for a while, circling and circling until he starts to relax. 

Read: Top 10 Massage Health Benefits of Tantric

3. His Feet

Now, move over to his feet and massage gently, moving up his legs and then his thighs. The more erotic your movements feel, the better. As a rule, it should feel like you are trying to arouse him the closer you get to his penis and testicles. 

4. His Pelvis

Begin to massage around his pelvic area: the pelvic area is quite sensitive, and as you work your way around here, he will most likely get an erection. But you aren’t going to get to his penis just yet. 

What you should do, is message his testicles, but carefully so as not to cause him pain. Hold the testicles within the cup of your left palm as your hand continues to massage around his pelvis. 

Read: What is Tantric Massage and How does it Differ From a Normal Massage

5. Stroke His Penis

By now, he should be fully erect. Hold on to his penis and begin to stroke the shaft. Begin by slowly stroking along the entire shaft length—slow and sensual movements. Now, increase the pace of your strokes as though you are giving him a handjob. 

You might want to switch hands or use both hands at the same time even. 

Stroke his frenulum as well, gripping firm sometimes and loose at other times. 

6. Edge

As he nears orgasm, pause for a while and then resume. The aim is to let him harness the energy in him that shows up when he is closest to orgasm. 

Read: 10 Ways to Keep Your Sex Life More Exciting

Summary

If done well, a tantric massage can help a man reach his peak sexual awareness.  

By Sara Leandro

Sara Leandro is a certified health coach who helps others feel their best through individualized lifestyle changes that meet their unique needs and health goals. She covers topics ranging from health and productivity to relationships.

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