We all know that when it comes to relationships and love, the little things matter as much as the big ones. This article is a list of the little cute things you should do for your girlfriend as you both work to deepen love and attraction towards each other.
1. Write Her Letters
Yes, letters may seem old school because, thanks to social media, there are better and faster ways to communicate with your partner. But even then, a letter is the cutest thing to write a girl who loves you.
It is even cuter when it comes with a bit of surprise. For example, sliding a well-written love letter into your partner’s purse can be the cutest thing ever. When she finds and reads it, she is most likely going to feel an overwhelming sense of attraction toward you.
2. Show Her Off
4 out of the 5 women we asked agreed that they love it when their partners show them off.
As little as this may seem, your girlfriend considers it a cute display of affection when you show her off.
She does not want to feel like you are hiding her. Being shown off makes her feel like she is worth it—you know, pretty enough for you to want everyone out there knowing she is yours.
Related: 10 Sweet Things a Woman Love to Hear
3. Surprise Her With Kisses and Touches
When it comes to the display of affection, the element of surprise adds a bit of cuteness to the mix.
Walking over to your partner and unexpectedly hugging them from behind is going to make her feel a sensational kind of thrill. Usually, with most partners, the reaction is a long laugh that trails into a conversation able to deepen the bonds you both share.
Surprise touches and shows of affection are also a great way to rekindle the spark in your relationship. Check out this article for more ways to bring back the spark in your relationship.
4. Give Her Forehead Kisses
I could have easily included this in one of the above paragraphs. But I believe it is important enough to stand on its own.
Aya, who has been dating for a year and fifteen months, tells us this: “When my boyfriend kisses my forehead, I feel weirdly protected and loved. It is something I just can’t describe.”
Many other women feel this way. So, I advise you to kiss her more on the forehead, especially when you have just hugged her.
It usually goes this way: hug, pull back a bit, and kiss her forehead.
5. Surprise Dates and Sleepovers
Surprises can come in any form, and that includes even surprise dates.
Once in a while, call your girlfriend and say: “Hey, you should get dressed; we are going out.”
This is such a cute thing to do, as it goes to show that she has been on your mind.
She feels special and, as a response, deepens the love and respect she has for you.
6. Send Her a Memento/Souvenir
By souvenir, we mean something that reminds her of the most beautiful memories you both have shared. This can be in pictorial or textual detail.
For pictorial mementos, all you need do is create a collage of some of your best pictures. If you can, you can also make a video. Send this collage or video to your partner. I promise you; this is a great cute way to make their day.
It can even revive the spark in your relationship if things are starting to get cold.
For textual mementos, you can write a personal story to them.
7. Surprise Her with the Company of an Old Friend
I bet your partner has, at some point or the other, made mention of an old friend who now lives so far away they barely see each other.
Are you thinking what I am thinking? Well, you should be. Because, friend, there is your chance to do something really cute for your partner.
Though this may involve going well out of your way, it usually proves to be worth it a lot of the time.
Invite that friend to a surprise date you set up and see how things go from there.
8. Notice The Littlest Detail About Her
How does one show his love for his girlfriend better than noticing the littlest details about her? I don’t know a better way.
One romantic thing you should always do for your girlfriend is to notice the littlest things about her. Notice the change in mood, the way her brows arch when she is not feeling much of herself.
Also, ask a lot of questions. I once heard a saying I agree with: “If you want your girlfriend to love and respect you more, then listen to her; just listen. That is it.”
9. Compliment Your Girlfriend
Of course, she is now your girlfriend. But hey, this does not suggest you should grow lax and begin to treat her like she is one of your other friends. No. She is your girlfriend, and every now and then, you have to be a cutie and compliment her.
Every guy should be in the cute habit of complimenting his girlfriend. When next she dresses up in a cute dress, walk over and tell her she looks good.
You can say so while hugging her.
Believe me, compliments matter a lot to women when they come from the right person. And to your woman, you are always the right person.
10. Tease Your Girlfriend
In addition to complimenting her, tease her sometimes as well. This works to create a playful environment in your relationship where she can be herself—her childish self.
Everyone has a childish self, you know? Given the right circumstances, this self shows up, and I confirm it is a lovely, cute version of anyone.
All guys should be in the habit of doing cute and romantic stuff for their girlfriends. Make her happy. Make her feel proud of being with you.