Are you meeting someone you met online for the first time? Today, I’m sharing 5 things to consider to make sure you enjoy your date.
Many people today meet their life partners or spouses online. This starts with a simple “Hello” and “How are you,” It gradually develops into a full-blown relationship.
Most times, online dating is not planned. It just happens as days go by after you discover some chemistry between each other as the communication grows.
These days, meeting people on dating apps is one of the most common ways to connect and find love. It is becoming the norm these days, but not everyone has been lucky to meet their desired person after many months of chatting online.
Do you have an online date you’ve been chatting with? And you’re looking forward to meeting this particular person? Here, we consider five dating rules to help you make the right choice before you finally someone you met online.
1. Check out their profile thoroughly
When you meet someone for the first time, checking out their profile is a great way to get a sense of who they are and what they’re interested in. This will help you decide if you want to go on a date with them or not.
The information in their profile can serve as icebreakers and conversation starters.
Also, keep in mind that many people use social media to paint or curate a perfect image of themselves, so merely seeing what someone shares online doesn’t necessarily provide an accurate glimpse into who they really are.
Ask questions about their job, where they went to college, and other things about them to get a sense of who they are.
2. Be safety conscious
Always be safety conscious before meeting someone you met online for the first time. Meeting up with your online date can be very exciting, and it can be easy to get carried away at the moment.
The best place to meet someone you have never met should be in a public place. Somewhere public and easily accessible.
Additionally, ensure that someone you trust knows where you are going before leaving. After returning, also let the person know you’re back.
This is a crucial dating rule to consider, especially before the first date.
3. Don’t set high expectations
When you meet someone you met online for the first time, it can be easy to assume that things will go perfectly. Talking online and in-person are two very different things.
So it is better not to set your expectations so high because looks may be deceiving. Remember that you are meeting this person for the first time; not everything that glitters is gold. There’s no 100 percent telling how it will go.
Not everyone can live up to the concept we’ve depicted in our heads. We often overestimate the success of a situation and feel let down, confused as to why things just couldn’t be as we imagined. However, be optimistic about it and hope for the best.
4. Have an open mind
Understand that everyone will not hold the same opinions as you, so try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and see things their way.
The only way to really know if you’re compatible with someone is to get together in person and see how it goes. Having an open mind is very important when meeting someone on the first date.
You will find that you’re more likely to discover new opportunities to try new things when you stay social.
Don’t convince yourself how your date will go before you even have it, keep an open mind, meet them, and continue from there. You can never tell how it will go.
5. Enjoy yourself and have fun
The less energy you spend worrying about meeting someone you meet online, the more you will be able to enjoy them when they finally show up.
Remember, dating gets a bad rap sometimes. We get so worked up about the outcome that we forget to enjoy the experience. So, cut yourself some slack and enjoy yourself.
You might not find that special one every single time, but there are many things you can still enjoy, including getting to know someone and spending a fun night out over drinks, dinner, or a movie.